Monday, December 28, 2009

Fish Bringing Peace


Please note: if you are easily weirded out, please stop reading now.

Recently, I was contacted by a step mom who had lost her young adult step son. She had his ashes and wanted to incorporate them into glass somehow. Her husband, his dad, was heartbroken and together they had decided that this might be good for the family who was grieving.

We chatted a bit and she decided that because he loved to fish, that would be a suitable way to commemorate him and that none of the cremains would be visible.

Here are the fish that I made for her. I have to say, that this custom work was one of the saddest, but most rewarding jobs that I have done. She came in, saw them and cried because they were even better than she had dreamed. She said that she hoped that this would bring some peace to the family.

Of course, I was so sad too for this family. But the idea of helping them sure made it a lot easier. I had worked with pets before, but never humans. The idea of it had me taken aback a bit, but I knew the results were what was important.

So would I do it again? Yes, of course. The Step Mom's reaction showed me how I could make a difference in a family's grieving. I'm all for that.

Have you done something similar to this? Tell us about it and how you handled it.
See you tomorrow.

5 comments:

  1. What a sweet story, Marcy. I'm so glad you were able to do this & help this family. What an honor.

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  2. that is a great story! a friend of ours wanted her mother near her all the time so Guy made her a small vase for the remains. she brought them to the studio and we filled it up and sealed the cap with some clear glue. she was really delighted with it .. she told us we should start a 'line' of memorial vases or something like that.. but i think we'll keep it as a one time special. glad that you could help them move on. i'm sure they're very happy with the fish. :)

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  3. Thank you so much for your kind words. Kelley, it was an honor and Blanche, your story about Guy's vase was a wonderful way to handle it too.

    Marcy

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  4. Marcy, What a beautiful thing your did. I'm not sure I could work with human cremains, but when I lost Spike, I made a heart and some memory stones with some of his cremains. They mean the world to me today.

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  5. Marcy, what a beautiful story. I have some of my Mom's ashes in a tiny bottle. Just a way to remember and maybe talk to her.

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